LOL I'm just curious, is all. And yes I will be staying right out of it. As I say I hope that's it now and we never hear from him again. He's deleted his FB profile. He works with my father-in-law as he got him a job there. None of this makes any sense, he was in way too deep in terms of the family to pull this shit.
Gubbed for nothing.
Not for nothing, it made a good thread.
Plus I got some decent compo.
What's compo?
Compensation.
How much did you get?
And where does it come from in a situation like that?
I got 4.5k. But my dental bills were almost 1k so =
It came from the government criminal compensation thing for victims of violent crime.
What happened to the guy who did it?
I've no idea. I tried calling the court to find out but they made me feel like a weirdo by doing that 'lol cough, erm ok' when I told them I was THE VICTIM so I told them to fuck off and hung up.
That's mental, but posting stuff on Facebook is just attention-seeking plebbery
Christ the girl has gone to the police about his stalking and my sister has phoned his boss and told him everything.
1000th post.
Magic this is worthy of it's own, live reporting thread, I think. You have a real opportunity here.
I was hoping for some live drama on Facebook the other day when a post belonging on Jeremy Kyle appeared but it was quickly deleted and I was denied my fun.
Stop being a fucking Magic, John. Did you screenshot it at least?
Was talking to potential tinder girl on the phone yesterday and she started saying "she isn't controlling" I half joked around and said "funny you say that, most the girls i've dated have said that, only to change and become controlling". She somehow came up with the conclusion that it's probably my fault for them being controlling and that it brought out some red flags.
Oh my. So tomorrow flirty powerful ex colleague is picking me up to go back to her flat with her sister and her smoking primary school teacher friend. We'll be there for an hour before the taxi picks us up to meet the rest of the crew at the beer festival.
This can only end well.
Married life, eh.
Well...that was hilariously shit. The lecturer friend was giving me looks the whole night and pulled me up to dance, I said the usual 'oh I'm rubbish at dancing lol' and she instantly went cold and sat back down and didn't look at me for about an hour. Then she dragged me up to dance again to Scottish Country Dancing shite and I said the same then she said it's fine neither can I and it was ok because she needed a partner. Then we got the taxi back and she was like 'you can get another taxi from mine' chat because the other girls lived in the opposite direction, and 'you can come up and have a cuppa, my house is a mess but it's fine' etc. To be fair I was tempted because the other girls chat was fucking shite about Tinder and dating and stuff. However I asked them if they minded dropping me off and they said no problem so I just went with that. Let her out and she never said bye or anything. What a fucking freak, no time for that shit. I'm married and have a kid so who does she think she is trying to get it on. Fuck her.
Bottled it.
Fair play Magic.
Better when there's no witnesses.
Right thing to do. Just have a belting wank later while thinking about what could've been. I had a close(ish) shave at a christmas do a few years ago, and the relief I felt the next day was enourmous.
Has anyone on here ever cheated on their wife/girlfriend?
I haven't but then I've never done a long term relationship and instead keep going on first dates.
I have a date on Tuesday and she seems lovely and also keen, so we'll see how that goes.
I never have. I'd be absolutely devastated to find out I'd been betrayed so I can't really bring myself to do it. I love flirting though just because it makes you feel good, I'd never follow it up even if there was absolutely no chance of anyone finding out.
I fully trust the wife as well, I think you have no choice otherwise you end up consumed by paranoia, fear and hate. More fool me if she does backstab me.
When I got home I went upstairs and kissed my daughter on the head, is a cheeky fuck worth losing everything?
Also if I was too drunk to control myself I definitely wouldn't be looking to shag anyone, I pride myself on performance. I've never screwed whilst being wasted.
Nah, not felt the need to yet. I think you've got be some sort of a wanker to do it in a long term relationship.
If you feel the need to fuck somebody else it's time to knock it on the head anyway. I could easily have gone back with fit accountant a few weeks back (my cock wanted me to) but you'd have to be a massive cunt to go through with it. I couldn't cope with hurting somebody that much.
Me and Lauren are genuinely on the mend now, incidentally. Very happy that I didn't choose just to end it.
SvN has got the right method imo. Wouldn't ever cheat but that tactic is an important one.
Met up with my last serious girlfriend today. Hadn't seen her in 5 months or so and it was really nice. We hoped that we'd be able to be good friends again because we were close friends before we got together and lasted 3 years and we split amicably. I needed a while to get my head straight first though. Was worried about how itd be but it was really great just catching up. Feel like I've gained a friend as I thought for ages I wouldnt be able to get to that stage.
In other news, got with a lass on Friday night and seeing her for a drink on Thursday. She said after we agreed to meet that its not a date as she's not properly over her last boyfriend, so there you go.
That's it, really. I know a guy who has been going out with the same girl since he was like 14, and he's cheated on her multiple times. Everyone knows (including people like me, a friend-of-a-friend or acquaintance at best) except the girlfriend. She's his first girlfriend, the girl he lost his virginity to, but he's constantly getting pissed and phoning up our mutual friend telling him he's going to dump her, this time he's serious, she's really annoying and stupid and they have nothing in common etc etc. Then the next day he laughs it off. Just break up with her you cunt. They'll almost certainly end up married, and he's almost certainly going to keep fucking other girls. It is fucking gross.Originally Posted by Lee
People who decide to have their cake and eat it must either be cowards or sociopaths. Probably both. We both went on a night out with a group of mutual friends, and he was trying to set up a girl we know with his mate that we didn't know. We only found out later that said mate had a fiance waiting for him at home. What the fuck?! I'm compulsive and a cunt, but I find it pretty easy to not fucking cheat on people. Fuck sake.
I personally couldn't deal with the potential of grief and being swallowed by my own paranoia waiting round every corner. That's probably a selfish reason never to cheat but does it really matter? I'm certainly not going to high horse it and say I only have eyes for one woman etc. Life is hard enough with one SWT.
I've never cheated, but then I've never been presented with the opportunity. I still don't believe I would succumb, as I know the overwhelming feeling of guilt after the deed would consume me.
I struggle enough to find one girl who is agreeable to sleeping with me that I can't fathom the idea of there being two. Let alone at the same time. That ven diagram intersection must be pretty fucking small.
A friend of mine who was a complete dog on his Mrs used to always say that there was no riding better than riding you shouldn't be doing. It was hard to feel sympathy at his devastation when he discovered she thought along the same lines though.
I had a similar experience. One of my friends would cheat on his missus every week without fail when we went out. Eventually one of her mates saw him, and she dumped him. I struggled to resist laughing in his face when the tears over pints in the pub came.
She probably knows as well and just doesn't want to accept they don't have a perfect relationship.
She's good looking, talkative and quite fiery.
All of these things are good and she said she will see me again, which is an added bonus. Think I've been on about 5 or 6 first dates this year and never got a second date out of any of them, so this is new and pleasant territory.
You've jinxed it now, you tit.
It'll be alright. I still haven't deleted Tinder, so I can always go back and graft on that should it all end in tears.
Hey *insert name*!
How are you?
blah blah blah, you?
Yeah, I'm really good cheers. Whereabouts are you from?
It's gotten tedious now.
Have you thought about trying Grindr?
Cheating is for cunts. Just end it.
Who was that at? Benny isn't actually on Grindr.
EDIT: I think.
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I should have been more clear: it's just a general view. If one is considering cheating, one should just end the relationship in question.
That being said, Benny is definitely on Grindr; we matched. :zink:
Swipe right, sweet cheeks xxx
I find it far too hard dealing with one woman, the thought of more than one nut case demanding my time is the stuff of nightmares.
If you want to ask me out, just do it. I'm easily persuaded.
Hi, my name's Ben. I like long walks along the beach, romantic novels and nothing more than snuggling up watching Peak Practice with a hot chocolate.
Simon always jinxes it. It's a bit sad to watch.
I believe in you, Simon lad.
Yeah, I reckon I jinxed it.
I obviously need to get better at first dates.
Where's Panda when you need him?
I'd find it a bit creepy if somebody I didn't actually know started their message with "Hey Toby, how are you?"
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