Whether I can divine your meaning or not is irrelevant. Talking in allusions as you were is just sneaky arseholey. It's like someone fishing for an 'aww babe' on Facebook ,or the sort of thing Harold does to avoid actually saying anything meaningful he might later have to defend. If you're going to talk about this stuff, have the decency to make yourself clear and actually address the issue. If you're not willing to do that, just fuck up.
No. There was no wailing in this thread, for example, until you entered with your standard issue, off the peg victim complex. I'm happy to hear any issues people might have with my moderation, but it's possible to put those across in a way that isn't just 'woe is me'.