We're finding the child thing hard guys. All of us. No vent, just an observation. Some days it's perfect others there are tears. Hard for all.
One consistent feature throughout is my ex maintaining cunt status with ease.
We're finding the child thing hard guys. All of us. No vent, just an observation. Some days it's perfect others there are tears. Hard for all.
One consistent feature throughout is my ex maintaining cunt status with ease.
Absent father is the best result for all involved.
Probably better you don’t get to ruin any more kids lives tbf.
Had a long talk with my girlfriend (of 8 years) last night and told her I have been having mega doubts for a while and am struggling to shift them. Day to day we are fine but I think we are pretty incompatible emotionally and it leads to neither of us getting what we want/need from a partner.
The problem is that neither of us have somewhere else we can stay at the moment so I can already tell that nothing will change. I would love it to work out, and the whole thing is absolute agony, but deep down I'm not really sure it can.
At least you have had the talk and your feelings are completely clear. If you are not all in to each other, it will never work out.
Kudos for doing that James. Brave but good to be honest.
How did she take it? Is it awkward or do you think it’ll be a bit of a kick start to talking about things more?
She took it pretty much as well as one could, but it was very upsetting.
I don't know. It has been on my mind for a while, and I thought it would be a clean break when the talk happened so I'm still trying to figure out how I feel about last night. This morning is like nothing happened.
It would be the best for both of us I could fuck off for a month to give us some space to think. Being enclosed together in a small flat is less than ideal.
Eight years with no marriage or kids. Phenomenal effort.
How old's the missus? I did Ms. Ting over badly with a breakup after 7 years and still feel guilty for wasting her time and only giving her a limited window before the best before date of her eggs. I've found the theory of it taking half the time the relationship lasted to truly get over things to be accurate so enjoy the highs and lows of the next four years.
No time wasted lads. You have to do what is best for you, and you only. If she does not convince you, it says more about her.
The idea of Magic actually offering relationship advice
Didn't Magic get binned?
Nah, it was his decision...
It's like Gareth Southgate telling you how to take penalties, whereas me doing it would be like Diana Ross telling you how to take penalties.
It’s more like Lewis explaining how to make friends
My ex is engaged and we're not even divorced yet lol.
The lucky escape has probably taught her not to waste any more time in her life.
No. That was made up, apparently.
Also I signed my divorce papers last week in the lawyers car park whilst she stood beside my car window in PPE.
Last edited by Magic; 14-06-2020 at 10:21 AM.
Life finds a way.
I lost my furloughginity last night and I think I may be in love. From not being touched by women in so long never felt so good. When I was inside her, I asked her when in going to see her again.
Fuck all of you, who live with women during lockdown who has the naan at the click of your fingers.
"I am getting in touch to let you know the court has granted the divorce (copy interlocutor attached). In one month or so, the sheriff clerk’s office will issue the formal divorce decree and send that to my office along with the certificates. I will post it out when it arrives. You are now divorced as of 17 June."
LOL that was my birthday.
What's happening with possessions?
Last edited by Spikey M; 25-06-2020 at 08:02 AM.
It means nowt if you can't stick it in the net.
Hear, hear. I'll probably marry the first girl that breaks my COVID hymen. Will probs bust at a bit of hand-holding.
The super spreader
The only women who i really cared about has come back into my life. I saw her out in Asda a few weeks ago and ever since then, we have been playing the texting game after five years of silence.
I really need to grow up, stop being a coward and commit.
You've posted about nearly breaking up before lad.
Girls are definitely more desperate after lockdown. I’ve found multiple who are actually wanting to date me.
All three panned off. 2 out of 3 were raging.
Last edited by Foe; 29-09-2020 at 08:54 AM.
Lad.
Any sudokus?
Any bibbis?
What is the online dating site of choice now? Is it still POF?