so we really not gonna get the story ? lol
so we really not gonna get the story ? lol
Ah it's not really very interesting. That was date FIVE, but since date one she's consistently rainchecked me/changed plans last minute.
Date three I was meant to go round for dinner, but an hour before she said "ah my flatmate has just got the plane back from Germany so I need to make her dinner, but I'll go for a quick drink with you". Very nearly fucked her off after that, but I figured I'd nowt else going on so might as well persist. After that I started being a bit more UNAVAILABLE, replied to messages slower, told her I was busy on x day but could do y day etc (vs being a proper fucking doormat at first cus i was a bit blinded by my attraction) and she was a lot more attentive and receptive for a while after that.
Date 4 I went round for food at hers, lots of hugging and snogging and she was stroking my hair and shit. After that was when I was all buzzing about it on here.
This date she first suggested we go for lunch on her break, which doesn't bode well on a 5th date with someone you've not shagged yet, unless she fancied giving me a handjob in wagamamas toilets. She then agreed to evening instead, but only a quick drink. Could see the writing on the wall tbh. We had a nice time but I could sense zero spark. Was about to be all "so wtf is going on here", when she was like "ahh so there's something I need to talk about which is kinda awkward.." and I just basically smiled and said don't worry I'm not blind, I can read signals (mostly a lie tbh), it's okay. She then just said that she had thought about things and she just isn't ready for dating (I'm aware she means isn't ready for dating ME, but I appreciate the politeness), apologised for being flaky and shit, and said that she enjoyed my company and wanted to stay friends so many times I just about believed it.
When I left i was a bit gutted, but more in a "back to the fucking drawing board" way. Mostly just massively relieved the headfuck was over, and to my surprise I was still upbeat and chirpy the next morning. Guess deep down I always knew it was a likely possibility.
Jesus fucking christ, tldr
Sounds like I was closest.
I want to ask how you've never seen it but risk falling into my own shit pit.
"I've not seen Die Hard".
Fucking hell.
Despite my autistic knowledge and interest in pop music, films have always been a gigantic hole in my cultural awareness. Broken home, mummy never watched films (it feels like my mum has sat down to watch a film about 25 times in the last 20 years, and about 17 of those times are rewatching Harry Potter or LOTR films) and I only ever watched sitcoms and FOOTY with my dad at weekends.
I got into films as a poncy 16 year old so mostly skipped the mainstream canon to watch wanky arthouse bullshit. Obviously.
I just reread that and it sounds like I'm trying to use a separated parents sob story to distract from not seeing die hard but I just forgot my train of thought that family trips to the cinema and shit just wasn't a thing etc. I spose my parents breaking up is barely relevant to that but it's deffo too late to edit my post now.
Dry your eyes lad. No wonder she bailed.
I'm stuck on your use of 'mummy'. Fuck Die Hard, that's the issue here.
It's very good, but the basic formula has been copied so many times over the years that if you watched it for the first time now you probably wouldn't see the fuss.
Still watch it mind, can’t have people knowing you have never seen the greatest Christmas movie.
Had sex last night
Yeah, you and Sincy could be knobrot buddies.
I've settled on having fun. Fuck long term and serious stuff.
Tldr I can't see this lasting. I need someone who is emotionally rock solid, self assured, confident, and not an evil cunt. Does that exist.
They do but the chance of a free undamaged one goes down like a cliff with age, so get to work.
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Ask your dad for tips.
Is it strange that when I typed out "packed it in" my brain went to exactly that ^^^
Ya I don't think everything has to be depression nor do I think I'm pissed off. I'm totally fine with my fate and accept it as such.
Best of luck to you fellers, though.
If I was surrounded by American women I think I'd have become celibate too.
Matched on bumble on weds. Unfeasibly fit. We were gonna meet this week but on Thursday she said "I'm at the pub and my mate has flaked, but I'm already dressed so I'll just have a drink on my ones". I, smooth as fuck, informed her I was also dressed so could join if she liked. She was game.
I think the slightly spontaneous nature of it made me a lot looser, without the time to get nervous as the prearranged date would have ominously gotten closer.
Went a couple of pubs, she was flirty from the start. I went for a kiss at the last pub but she rolled her eyes and said you have to work up to that, and made me hold her hand. Walked her home, and she initially said I couldnt come in, but after we snogged she said "ah that was good, you can come in but just cuddling". When she started taking her pants off in her bedroom I figured we were doing more than cuddling.
It gets weirder tbf. I dunno what came over me but I tentatively put my nob around her arse and she pushed it in. Half way through she said "fuck I've never done anal before", and I replied, quite honestly (shocking I know considering my predilictions for arses), that I hadn't either. 10/10 would bum again.
I'm seeing her again this week.
Gosh, really playing hard to get there making you wait several hours before taking it up the arse.
If only it was true.
I genuinely promise it's 100% accurate.
If a lass puts out on the first date then that's enough for me to know they aren't relationship material. I know it's hypocritical as you tend to go out and about to get laid but ultimately, I'd have more respect for said woman if she rejected my advances. Of course you would go balls deep if the opportunity arose but that's about as far as it would go. A fuck buddy and nothing more.
So does your bretheren.
I bet you sat there and lent a sympathetic ear to her woes of failed relationships. I would normally nip that sort of chat in the bud because quite honestly, I don't want to hear about why your ex was a cunt. Always three sides. Hers. His. Truth. It's a sign of someone who isn't over them or damaged goods.
I stuck Tinder on the phone just yesterday but given I lasted a mere few days on PoF a few weeks/months back, I ain't holding much hope. I find it all so boring and people annoy me in general, I'd rather date an animal. Not the sort DS dates but you know what I mean.
How are you doing with these South Florida women then, Bruh?