He's a Brummie isn't he?
He's a Brummie isn't he?
He is indeed.
On the plus side, he can be pals with Oscar.
Long time coming. Get out you maggot.
Don't be a pussy, you can wingman me with your Brummie accent, we could probably make it work @7om
Birmingham, born and raised, although I've lost the accent mostly now. When I fist came over here I thought I would have no problems with the language but it actually was a hurdle I had to clear. No slang, no brummie accent.Originally Posted by Foe
To be honest, Mert, I would be an amazing wingman here. The accent gets a lot of attention but of course I can't make full use of it's potential.
My friend's brother moved to Jerusalem in September, and he has had to ditch his slight Midlands accent (from Nuneaton) for what he thinks is a clear one, but which just makes him sound like a gay robot.
Low key I have gone 9 nights in a row where I hookup with a girl I met at the bar, I don't go out often but I'm drunk right now after fucking another girl, I feel like a God,
And yet in my heart the insecurity persists. How to overcome God knows.
I often feel the need to tell people I don't care about how much DEFINITELY REAL sex I'm having.
You certainly don't look like a god. More like a frog.
You're insecurity on here trying to impress people is more worrying. Why don you that is?
No offence Mert but I can't find the passage in the bible where God spent a week going after several different women. I mean, there's that bit where he knocked one of them up but no more.
Yeah @Magic, did you get out of the strop after or is damage done?
He's too busy selling his weight plates to his mate for 25p and finding a timeshare in Monserrat to post.
@Magic, update us.
Just shit mate. Fuck all to update. I didn't want to say anything because everything I post now can be thrown back to loldivorce but oh well.
Everyone on this forum is truly (although they might not admit it) routing for you man.
Have you considered councilling?
Obviously that is aimed at @Magic and his Mrs, but @Boydy and @leedsrevolution are also invited to consider it.
Think that's it lads. Was trying to find a playlist (one for sex ahaha what a chump right!) on her phone and a message popped up from a bloke I knew she'd been talking to (comments on FB and shit) I said what's that 'nothing' can you open it then if it's nothing and it was a naked pic of him. I just told her to get to fuck by the time I'm back.
Jesus.
I'm a twit
All because he had a bigger dick than you, poor form.
Advice is welcome genuinely though. I feel like I'm going mad and I don't have anyone I'm not utterly embarrassed to talk to.
Love the poker face there. Check if you don't believe me! It's nothing!
Ah shite.
Ffs.
Well, not really much left to do is there? Talk to a lawyer? Might as well get the upper hand in the negotiations.
Genuinely sorry, I always thought the three of you looked like a beautifulday family.
And do what's best for the kid. Hopefully you get to keep custody.
I doubt they'll let her go off with him to work in a bar in Turkey.
Sorry. If you need space I get it! I'd be raging too but please know that I have not done anything to encourage that photo or any attention from him. I'm not a liar and you CAN trust me. I need to know how you feel but understand that you need time to think things through. This can work but at the moment it's not as we're nit working together. If you think we can then great, if not...
Please phone/text soon x
So confused my head is fucked.
People don't just send other people pictures of their bits unprovoked.
That was my argument. I didn't see the precursor to it either in hindsight I wish I had but she's no doubt deleted it.
^^^^^
99% of things are fair game in my book but fucking wind it in Mahow.
Does a man ever get to keep custody? I thought the law was 100% geared toward the mother no matter what she does.
Mj
I went to pick my daughter up and buckled. I have swallowed my pride until I decide what to do.
People may send randoms on Twitter pictures of their manhood, but nobody is sending someone they know such pictures unless they have good reason to believe they are welcome. Maybe she just flirted a bit out of frustration and he's read too much into it and sent it, or, maybe they've been up to all sorts. Until she's been honest about it - because 'ah dinnae de nuthan' is bullshit - there is no scope for this ending in anything but a break up. Whatever you decide; sleep on it before you commit to it.
Yeah, that's a problem.
My mate stumbled across a chat in which his girlfriend and some bloke had shared pictures and been talking about doing stuff to each other. She claimed it never got to that point and she was only doing it because she enjoyed the attention, which she was no longer getting from my mate. They ended up sorting things out for a bit, though eventually did realise they weren't happy together and broke up.
How does she know the bloke? What was her reaction to the naked picture?
I don't know if I'd be able to get a situation like this out of my head, so for me it'd be game over, but there is a possibility that the picture was sent with minor encouragement imo.
How do I know if its honest though?
They went to school together. Hes a fucking kickboxer and built like fuck (obviously!). So he could be just an arrogant dafty.
Her reaction is irrelevant because I was there. She initially said it was his friend which was interesting. How much do you read in to it? Was it totally unexpected genuinely? Whe didnt seem that bothered until I told her I wanted her in out. Ah fuck knows. Her Gran is just out of hospital and her grandad is almost dead. She went round to her mums and no doubt they explained I was being selfish in the grand scheme of things upsetting her like that given everything else that is happening. Another reason to dislike me no doubt.
Personally I'd want to see the messages. If they've been deleted then that would be it for me.
They have been deleted.
She said she deleted it and blocked him. True mate if it was just us I'd have kicked her the fuck out but my kid mate. My kid.
Let's go to Goa and have a Cobra and a Chilli Massala, bro x
Magic.
Get yourself a good lawyer tomorrow.
I don't know if her reaction is irrelevant. You can always look into these things. Was the naked pic the pic that popped up as a notification or had she already seen it?
Deleting messages is dodgy as fuck. I think to get over it you'd need to see a full transcript where she isn't guilty, as opposed to having to fill in blanks in your head.
The relationship is completely fucked, but if there's a way to salvage it for the kid then I think you should try. The only issue is whether you can have a relationship without constant breakdowns because ultimately that'd be worse for your daughter than divorce.
No it was a new message. And she clicked on it without much hesitation.
It was fucked anyway. Just shit.
Has she deleted her chat history with him? If not, go through it. If she has, then she's hiding her affair.
I don't know how you come back from that. Even if there's nothing in it, the seeds are there. Actually, even if there's nothing in it, she knows the bother you two are having. Why let that shit pop up?
On one hand, I wouldn't be so fast to judge. I mean, there's a good 95% chance that she's fucking around on him. But I know of people who have sent/received unsolicited dick photos. It's not always welcome.
On the other hand, the fact she tried to hide it moves the 95% to 99%.
She'd be better off putting his mind at ease by showing it to him and going, "Lol, look at his bent cock!"
Ferreting out the truth is somewhat pointless, it does more damage than good. Either there's trust or there isn't, decide which way you want this to go and move forward from there.
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