Why did you get married, Magic?
It doesn't sound like you and your wife have all that much in common.
That's not strictly true, I just have a disgusting habit of always thinking grass is greener, never satisfied, better than etc. I don't know why. The opposite is probably true.Originally Posted by Boydy
Can I just say this place has definitely changed me, you set of cunts. I used to be satisfied with CSI, James Paterson, working in a warehouse and McDonalds.
Pics or gtfo.
Petty insults aside, you appear to be staying in the marital home solely because of the kids.
You're never going to be happy.
I also had a lot of friends but lost them, openly ditching them to be fair, for the mrs. I pushed them out because I didn't want them to ruin anything. They weren't GREAT or anything but at least they were there. My best mate she really didn't like, I think the last straw there was when I didn't pick him for my best man and picked my brother-in-law who I'd only known for about 3 years lol. He didn't come to the wedding. Lot of them weren't even invited but those that were didn't come. Haven't really had the opportunity to make friends like that since, this was all before Facebook was big and stuff, like Bebo times. So I started Facebook after all that, which fucked me over a little bit. I still have work friends but that isn't the same, really. Feel quite sad when I see people that have great mates outside of work, BM4L or groups of mates. I threw it all away, but they weren't the right ones anyway I don't believe at least. Who knows. Who gives a fuck anyway, what a boring cunt.
I'm not not happy. Melancholy with patches of hate, and streaks of greatness.
He'll never be happy, marriage or not.
Yeah, this is an excellent point. Not sure why, maybe I need CBT or some shit. Fucking wonderful, thanks shit parents.
Have you considered meditation?
No.
Try it.
Good, it's a con.
Fuck meditation. Try medication.
I need to find inner peace, and accept myself. Once I do that, I can accept and be happy with everything else. Problem is I'm all too aware of how much of a cunt I am and can be, so its a viscous cycle. Maybe it's good to be oblivious.
Making friends as an adult is kinda weird and difficult.
Maybe for you lot.
Try religion. It works for some of us.
It is. Also a bit pointless since you no longer 'do stuff.'
Just get a hobby or something.
Boyd's too busy trying to fit in with the GAA banter.
Seriously, give meditation a go.
You seem to have a constant stream of negative thoughts about yourself and even just 20 minutes a day free from that will make you feel a lot better.
"Sorry, Amber. Daddy can't play with you because he's trying to imagine an Ox scratching it's arse."
Hilarity aside, if this is real then you poor bastard Magic. Hope it all gets sorted out for you dude.
That sounds properly shit, Magic. Maybe you need to get a divorce and go mad for a few years, have a second crack at being a teenager. Move to the midlands and sleep in my spare room, I'll introduce you to my freaky friends.
I had an extremely good friend who did similar, I've not spoken to him in years and have no intention ever to do so. Kinda screwed yourself over in terms of friendships there.
Test.
Magic I did similar with my ex wife, r.e. friends. I then reached out to them afterwards and was very honest and humble about how much of a dick I was.
Some welcomed me back into their lives, some didn't. Get out and about, go to comedy/music gigs, socialise at work nights out etc. I had to start out again in 2010 with pretty much fuck all pals in my life. Joined a 5's team and started going to a pub quiz. Still do both weekly. Morale of this pish is get out and engage with folk.
Found out today the ex has been tarnishing my name by telling everyone I cheated on her. Chimping out!
Play along with it so it messes with her head when it gets back to her.
Read the Bhagavad-Gita. Then join a book group, you lonely bastard. At least you've provided me some clarity as I try to decide whether it's worth fucking off my friends for a girl.
Making friends as an adult is easy if you just join a sports team. Obviously you need at least some bantz though or you will be crucified.
Why don't you keep your friends and find another girl?
Bros before hoes, init.
Test.
Leos before those.
I think it depends on how close you are to the bro, how long the relationship lasted/how serious it was and how long ago it was.
Also whether you're moving to another country within a few months.
I think if you or your mate thinks a lass will poison the well, it's already on shaky ground. I dunno, Magic. If it means that much, try and get back on terms with the lads. If nowt else, its another avenue to vent towards instead of just us and liveleak comment threads.
Having gone through it from the other end spoons it's a terrible idea. It won't just affect you and this guy, you'll potentially fuck things up with your group of friends too. If he kicks up a fuss or is genuinely upset by it then you walk away looking like a prick to everyone neutral.
What's the point?
The grass is greener!
I think it's probably more "there's grass over there!" given spoons relationship history.
I was referring to Magic's situation. Spoon is young and will make mistakes. Let him.
Well, I would hate for my friend to end up like you.
Failed to pull last night and now can't even get hungover tings to come round. Woeful.
Important article about the emotionally damaging effects of the hookup culture on women:
http://www.crisismagazine.com/2016/h...ure-done-women
I started reading it and I thought 'This is a weird article' and then I looked up
You don't half read some weirdo websites Mert.
edit: Just got this popup as I went to close the tab
Nah, I'm good mate.
I got the same one (and did pretty much the same thing as you as regards reading it).
There was a documentary about Fraternities on BBC last night. Dear lord.
That was so depressing I had to turn off.
I only saw the last 20 minutes of it. Is it because they go to college younger (or have less primary/secondary education) which makes young American men even more ostensibly infantile than their British counterparts? It really is quite an achievement.
Yo being in a fraternity is dope, you pool all your money with your best friends to throw parties and bang wimmins. How can you not be a fan of that?
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