Does she have any kids?
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Does she have any kids?
Can this all fall to pieces sharpish? I'm not a fan of happy Magic.
Happy for you, Magic. :)
Fucking gay.
I’ve never felt like you’re pretending to.
Good job Magic :thumb:
I mean :thbup:
Lol well.
She came off her ADs on Hogmonay and was fine until today, but we were basically together until yesterday night. Today she's had a complete nervous and mental breakdown in tears all day. I can't do anything as I've got A overnight, feel a bit of a retard for blindly supporting her on that decision on the back of a few months of happiness.
Guess this might be terminal as I really don't know what to do and she's got many issues she hasn't worked through yet. Shouldn't have Facebook official'd. God damnit. :face:
Anti depressant withdrawal is some real shit. Give it some time to even out, communicate etc.
Dating another pleb.
Is half the western world on anti-depressants? I swear I run into a bunch of people who I thought had their shit together way more than I do being on them. That's my excuse for being a mess, I'm not taking PEDs.
"I have anxiety" has crawled into the realm of identity politics for people who have no identity. Whatever happened to just giving them a few gym sessions to cheer up?
It was for PTSD her last relationship was (?). To be fair I didn't realise what she was like before she started taking them.
Maybe I'd have been a bit more cautious in my flippant GO YOU.
Wow, that's dreadful. Poor girl. Whatever you do, don't be a dick and run. Support her through it and you'll come out stronger on the other side.
I bet you're absolutely revelling in being the well-adjusted one. Properly drinking it in.
Yeah that's what I tried to do. Not sure how successful it was but we just had a really long chat that was all positive and nice.
She is back on now. If she wants to again she said she'd seek doctor advice and do a plan, and I'll support her if and when that time comes, in the knowledge of what to expect. That was hard, as it brought back my stuff too. Proud we got through that as well as my initial meltdown.
Is this 'healthy'? Learning every day.
The most important thing is you
Really big of you Magic. Kudos.
I know. Already I've learnt so much about a deep relationship. Incredible really. Even if it doesn't work out I can take so much from it. My eyes are open.
The whole terminal thing above was me in my head.
We'll see how it goes, but each day as it comes definitely helps keep perspective.
You don't want to inherit or take on other peoples problems. Unless you want too and are fully prepared to go all the way.
Two years with my girlfriend today, dunno how that happened. I’m not sure if everyone in their twenties thinks this, but I’d give decent odds that we get married.
In my news, things still going really well. She’s pretty much staying at mine every Thursday night as it’s much easier for her to get to work on Friday as she does a different location.
Other than that, still taking it slow, still not met A, still developing and progressing with myself and all my relationships in life. Loving it.
Yeah alright mate thats great but tell us the saucy stuff now.
The payoff is going to be glorious.
:cool:
Real talk, it seems like you’re doing so much better Magic :) I know it’s a long bumpy road and you won’t be able to make her squirt each and every time, but progress is all about taking it step by step.
Are you giving her raw wood though?
I laughed off the thought of being curled up for the next few weeks and a baby arriving in 9 months time. However, I suspect quite a few of you will be in the same position.
How many couples realising they hate each other. Fucking hell can't imagine still being with that bitch and going through this. :drool:
:D you ain't wrong.
Anyone in to toys?
I wouldn't class a gimp mask and whips and chains etc as toys. That's more BDSM. Yes I meant vibies, pluggies etc.
Na. Never used any additional tools in the bedroom.
Neither had I. The new mrs bought a cheap cock ring (it sucked) so I bought a beast from Ann Summers (lol). It's great for quickies when there's no foreplay but loses it's worth in a big sesh. She said she had a box of toys (didn't ask her to elaborate) that she'd thrown out, her ex was a bit of an abusive cunt so I reckon there was maybe some BDSM shit there? She likes very mild choking as well. Might bring it up with her in terms of fantasy exploration (the toys, nothing else).
I haven't told her I'm absolutely in to anal, I did try and fist my ex-wife too which was a massive turn on, lol. As it stands we haven't broached anal yet. I think she'd be quite in to it but I reckon she thinks I'm not, because I was in such a long marriage. Let me tell you when you've only got the same snatch to play with for 10 years you learn some pretty funky and freaky shit.
I guess my worry would be this lifts the lid on some absolutely mental sex stuff which I might not be comfortable with, or feel out of my depth or inadequate. Guess I won't know until we talk about it?