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-james-
22-02-2016, 07:50 PM
I don't really have that much to say on here, but I still come here when I'm on the internet most days out of habit. Presuming the departed haven't moved to Haiti, why cut this place out entirely?

Jord still has me on Facebook and 'liked' my most recent profile picture, which is probably why I'm raising this.

randomlegend
22-02-2016, 07:53 PM
Jord wants to actually graduate from medical school.

Kikó
22-02-2016, 07:54 PM
They still post on the dugout.

randomlegend
22-02-2016, 07:57 PM
Didn't realise the old place was even still up.

Kikó
22-02-2016, 08:00 PM
It's thriving. Taz is currently an admin.

Jimmy Floyd
22-02-2016, 08:13 PM
I've gone through different stages of life, busy and un-busy, but I've not at any point taken time off here or drifted away for a bit. I guess once you did it would be easy to stay away though.

Giggles
22-02-2016, 08:33 PM
The average age is getting too old. It has lasted well but really is dying a death now.

Kikó
22-02-2016, 08:35 PM
You do love to tell us that. Let's have a promotion drive for new members.

Manc
22-02-2016, 08:36 PM
You need to recruit.

simon
22-02-2016, 08:36 PM
The average age is getting too old. It has lasted well but really is dying a death now.

I think you finished Benny off all by yourself. Some effort, tbf.

Kikó
22-02-2016, 08:36 PM
Let's run it up the flag pole and see who salutes.

Baz
22-02-2016, 08:37 PM
They get banned for four years.

simon
22-02-2016, 08:37 PM
You need to recruit.

You can't.

Dark Soldier
22-02-2016, 08:43 PM
I don't find any of you interesting anymore :ae:

Dquincy
22-02-2016, 08:47 PM
Certain people are not very nice on here.

Makes me want to post less because of it.

Kikó
22-02-2016, 08:48 PM
How can that be possibly true?

Sir Andy Mahowry
22-02-2016, 08:51 PM
We need to get Johnny Foreigner onto here, an influx of them might force Harold out too so that's another positive.

Disco
22-02-2016, 08:51 PM
What happened to the Twitter account, we were supposed to be swimming in fresh meat by now. Figuratively.

Giggles
22-02-2016, 08:54 PM
You do love to tell us that. Let's have a promotion drive for new members.

That's because I'm right. I've near gave up myself though, which should appease 90% of the contingent.

igor_balis
22-02-2016, 08:55 PM
Bosko balaban says his registration wasn't verified by an admin??????

mugbull
22-02-2016, 09:24 PM
Harold's presence ruins any discussion on here, tbh, so its not worth trying to talk about anything anymore

Pepe
22-02-2016, 09:26 PM
I agree with that. I know we should be for freedomz and everything but I strongly support banning him.

And now this thread will also become about him, one more not to bother with.

QE Harold Flair
22-02-2016, 09:26 PM
Certain people are not very nice on here.

Makes me want to post less because of it.

Safe spaces are important.

I swear you morons who complain are self harmers. You invoked me to post and will then complain about it. Reminds me of the feminists who give out shit and then can't take it and demand the curtailment of free speech when they get it back. The one here who gets abused is me, mostly. Not you, by me.

Kikó
22-02-2016, 09:27 PM
Don't be so melodramatic. As long as you're happy to not discuss religion, sexism, women's rights, Islam, Europe, immigration, politics and wrestling then you have free reign.

Byron
22-02-2016, 09:30 PM
That's because I'm right. I've near gave up myself though, which should appease 90% of the contingent.

Broken clock blah blah blah etc...

simon
22-02-2016, 09:32 PM
How about those feminists though...

randomlegend
22-02-2016, 09:33 PM
People act like if Harold didn't post they would be having wonderful, flowering discussions.

In truth the threads would probably just die instead.

Giggles
22-02-2016, 09:38 PM
Broken clock blah blah blah etc...

A broken clock isn't always right.

Ermm, blah blah etc.

Pepe
22-02-2016, 09:38 PM
People act like if Harold didn't post they would be having wonderful, flowering discussions.

In truth the threads would probably just die instead.

The forum was doing quite well before his last comeback. Look at the state of it now. This place is still going to die sooner or later, but the rate at which it does would change considerably.

QE Harold Flair
22-02-2016, 09:41 PM
No, it wasn't. It was exactly as it is now.

simon
22-02-2016, 09:43 PM
People act like if Harold didn't post they would be having wonderful, flowering discussions.

In truth the threads would probably just die instead.

We had 15 pages of Harold and Lewis arguing about what a peer review was. I'd rather die.

QE Harold Flair
22-02-2016, 09:44 PM
We had 15 pages of Harold and Lewis arguing about what a peer review was. I'd rather die.

Right, and how many times did you post in that thread beforehand? So why did you keep reading? Why aren't you dead?

simon
22-02-2016, 09:51 PM
Right, and how many times did you post in that thread beforehand? So why did you keep reading? Why aren't you dead?

I read every thread.

Baz
22-02-2016, 09:51 PM
The forum was doing quite well before his last comeback. Look at the state of it now. This place is still going to die sooner or later, but the rate at which it does would change considerably.And yet there are still no google ads on here. :panda:

Spammer
22-02-2016, 09:54 PM
Yeah I say ban Harold.

We might not die as a result of him, but he has a unambiguously horrendous impact on the place.

Reg
22-02-2016, 09:57 PM
Yeah I say ban Harold.

We might not die as a result of him, but he has a unambiguously horrendous impact on the place.
Amen.

Then get a poll up to decide Lewis' new hobby to replace those three hours a day.

QE Harold Flair
22-02-2016, 09:57 PM
Fuck me, make your own safe spaces thread, then. You know, I'm no different from some 10 or so years ago, when I was voted among the best posters. What's changed is society's inability to deal with 'offense', so-called. When I see someone on the extreme left being a twat I don't cry and demand my eyes not have to bear witness to that view. Fucking man up, child.

This is just the same no-platforming, childish shit in microcosm.

Spammer
22-02-2016, 09:59 PM
I guess it's because we're quieter nowadays so you're less of a novelty and more just a pain in the arse.

QE Harold Flair
22-02-2016, 10:01 PM
I guess it's because we're quieter nowadays so you're less of a novelty and more just a pain in the arse.

I rarely engage in actually being directly offensive to people. I always have to deal with that. People are offended by my views, which is bizarre. Some people just need to grow up.

The truth is usually more important than your feelings.

Toby
22-02-2016, 10:02 PM
You're really not that offensive, just wrong a lot.

Henry
22-02-2016, 10:03 PM
Harold's presence ruins any discussion on here, tbh, so its not worth trying to talk about anything anymore

The solution is to ignore Harold, since his entire purpose is to get attention.

Pepe
22-02-2016, 10:06 PM
Hard to ignore when half the posts in all the forum are from him. The likes of Toby and Lewis are as guilty to be fair, but I wouldn't want those two banned.

QE Harold Flair
22-02-2016, 10:13 PM
Hard to ignore when half the posts in all the forum are from him.

Yes, that's amost certainly true. I post in very few threads.

Spoonsky
22-02-2016, 10:26 PM
+1 for banning Harold. Not because he's offensive but because he's boring and shit. Even Mert, who presents largely the same views, is a much less ruinous poster.

TTH is one of the main things that brings me to the internet, and leads me to wasting time on it. If I ever quit it'll either be because I'm too busy bumming around third world nations or because I've decided to get my shit together and stop procrastinating so much. Going two weeks without it, you do stop missing it quite so much.

QE Harold Flair
22-02-2016, 10:28 PM
+1 for banning Harold. Not because he's offensive but because he's boring and shit. Even Mert, who presents largely the same views, is a much less ruinous poster.

TTH is one of the main things that brings me to the internet, and leads me to wasting time on it. If I ever quit it'll either be because I'm too busy bumming around third world nations or because I've decided to get my shit together and stop procrastinating so much. Going two weeks without it, you do stop missing it quite so much.

And what makes you such an illuminating and excellent poster?

Giggles
22-02-2016, 10:29 PM
This has just turned into another Harold thread btw. It's not just him.

ScousePig
22-02-2016, 10:30 PM
I come on here (online basically) when I'm alone. If I (say) moved in with my girlfriend and didn't have much 'alone' time, I'd possibly stop. Not because I want to stop, but the void may get filled by something else.

Spammer
22-02-2016, 10:30 PM
Who else? Name and shame! Name and shame!

Also, what does Giggles have to do with Benny disappearing?

Spoonsky
22-02-2016, 10:30 PM
And what makes you such an illuminating and excellent poster?

My good looks.

Giggles
22-02-2016, 10:32 PM
Who else? Name and shame! Name and shame!

Also, what does Giggles have to do with Benny disappearing?

I would also like to know this.

Boydy
22-02-2016, 10:33 PM
Harold is a prime example of the Dunning-Kruger effect. That's what makes him so infuriating, not that he's offensive.

GS
22-02-2016, 10:34 PM
I have got into the unfortunate habit of skipping threads when I see that Harold is the last poster.

Toby
22-02-2016, 10:35 PM
As for the original question, I think in the case of well known and/or active members who stop posting it will mostly be a conscious decision to divert their time elsewhere. Browsing here, and especially posting here rather than just reading, does tend to be a form of procrastination.

Boydy
22-02-2016, 10:39 PM
I think they probably just drift away. It's easy to do when you've got stuff to do. Then they probably just don't bother coming back when they realise they've stopped.

CJay
22-02-2016, 10:50 PM
I come on here (online basically) when I'm alone. If I (say) moved in with my girlfriend and didn't have much 'alone' time, I'd possibly stop. Not because I want to stop, but the void may get filled by something else.

Pretty much this for me too. When I get married I imagine I'll be on here much less. Or maybe more, depending on how I cope. :uhoh:

QE Harold Flair
22-02-2016, 11:04 PM
I have got into the unfortunate habit of skipping threads when I see that Harold is the last poster.

http://www.thethirdhalf.co.uk/showthread.php?487-Quiet!!!&highlight=harold

It was so much better back then. :console:

Spoonsky
22-02-2016, 11:08 PM
If I could browse TTH without getting distracted by anything else on the internet it would be great. The problem is that it's a gateway to an hour going in circles on Reddit.

Lewis
22-02-2016, 11:11 PM
Harold is in fine form at the minute. He's learned about feminism (sort of), he's got a new hero, and fuck the rest of us we're going to hear about it whether we like it or not. You could use him in the future to track what people were discussing on Twitter six months earlier.

QE Harold Flair
22-02-2016, 11:14 PM
Harold is in fine form at the minute. He's learned about feminism (sort of), he's got a new hero, and fuck the rest of us we're going to hear about it whether we like it or not. You could use him in the future to track what people were discussing on Twitter six months earlier.

You know, as part of my research I was searching my own name on this board. You don't half fea6ture a lot. Almost like you have some kind of obsession. :pards:

Giggles
22-02-2016, 11:21 PM
If I could browse TTH without getting distracted by anything else on the internet it would be great. The problem is that it's a gateway to an hour going in circles on Reddit.

Reddit looks like a fucking mess.

randomlegend
22-02-2016, 11:25 PM
I go on a couple of specific sub-reddits and it's useful for that. I've never really got into 'redditting' in the wider sense though.

Lewis
22-02-2016, 11:32 PM
You know, as part of my research I was searching my own name on this board. You don't half fea6ture a lot. Almost like you have some kind of obsession. :pards:

Because the search function includes post quotes (like this one) as mentions.

Spammer
22-02-2016, 11:45 PM
Yeah I've never understood Reddit as a social media. Here we know stuff about each other; on Reddit you're lucky if you bump into the same person more than once. Though I guess there are smaller subreddits that might have a bit of community spirit.

Spoonsky
22-02-2016, 11:47 PM
It's not social at all, it's just reading interesting things or looking at funny pictures. It's like if the "Interesting Things" and "Humorous Pictures" threads weren't bust.

QE Harold Flair
22-02-2016, 11:48 PM
Because the search function includes post quotes (like this one) as mentions.

No, no.I actually went through a few of them and it was you talking about me and referncing me often, while I wasn't here.

Lewis
22-02-2016, 11:52 PM
How many times? I don't believe it would have been enough to constitute a 'lot'.

randomlegend
22-02-2016, 11:58 PM
Yeah I've never understood Reddit as a social media. Here we know stuff about each other; on Reddit you're lucky if you bump into the same person more than once. Though I guess there are smaller subreddits that might have a bit of community spirit.

The sub-reddit I post on (one related to a specific game) has nearly 800,000 subscribers. It's just the most convenient place for related news etc.

Yevrah
23-02-2016, 12:46 AM
Harold's presence ruins any discussion on here, tbh, so its not worth trying to talk about anything anymore

That really is absolute rot.

Others clear contribute to the borefests he's at the heart of and I still don't understand why it's so hard for people to ignore him rather than engage in a 10 page shit off.

Spoonsky
23-02-2016, 03:30 AM
Harold's presence. It's not his fault alone but he's the common denominator in every shit dull thread. The problem is that it only takes one person to indulge him to ruin the thread for everyone; the vast majority of people do just ignore him.

7om
23-02-2016, 05:10 AM
There's no laughs on here anymore.

I'll come on every now and then and it's just football, doctors or another boring semantic-shitfest. Fuck that. The peak of my time on here was shit like photoshopping Taz, Sama and Luca, the 100 nipples thread and so on. It was creative.

That kind of lightheartedness seems to have drifted away now and that's why we're left discussing politics.

Giggles
23-02-2016, 07:11 AM
Zom has absolutely nailed it there.

CJay
23-02-2016, 07:28 AM
100 nipples thread?

Kikó
23-02-2016, 07:31 AM
Even Santa and Luca talk less in our WhatsApp group. It could just be a communal coming off age.

Giggles
23-02-2016, 07:34 AM
Who's Santa?

Spoonsky
23-02-2016, 07:47 AM
I thought about that PoF thread today. Pretty fucked up, wasn't it?

The problem is that our 'creatives' have all left. Brain drain. We're like East Germany, and what we really need is to blockade the WhatsApp group.

Giggles
23-02-2016, 07:51 AM
Taz is a huge loss, even more than I thought he'd be.

Waffdon
23-02-2016, 08:19 AM
Taz, Pepe and Lewis. My holy trio.

Giggles
23-02-2016, 08:21 AM
Taz, Pepe and Lewis. My holy trio.

Pepe used to be good value but he's just turned into a snide now.

Boydy
23-02-2016, 08:26 AM
Let's track Taz down and harass him until he comes back.

It'll give us something to do and discuss.

Who's closest to MK?

Magic
23-02-2016, 09:33 AM
Can we not do this every month?

Toby
23-02-2016, 09:38 AM
I think that PoF thread was the furthest I've ever felt from the general tone of the board. It was just filled with Smiffy trying to be funny and P_3 being a creep.

Magic
23-02-2016, 09:43 AM
Taz, Pepe and Lewis. My holy trio.

The revised #teamidiot

SincereTheRebel
23-02-2016, 11:01 AM
I wasnt planning on moving over, but decided to after the board lord fixed the skin.

I never really used to post in many threads before, and its become less again since the move here. I agree that threads have now become more serious with a lot of threads i see. No one seems to care about.

The start of the end was the failed Kickabout. If that went down, i guarantee things would have moved froward, instead of five steps back.

Magic
23-02-2016, 11:14 AM
That was more cuntish than anything.

QE Harold Flair
23-02-2016, 12:53 PM
How many times? I don't believe it would have been enough to constitute a 'lot'.

That's a great point.

QE Harold Flair
23-02-2016, 12:55 PM
The revised #teamidiot

My creation. Like so much of what is taken for granted.

Pepe
23-02-2016, 01:47 PM
Zom got it. I never get any lols anymore. :(

Lets swap Harold for Taz and a new golden age will arise.

Baz
23-02-2016, 04:16 PM
Presumably a few of you still have Taz's number?

Step up, Luca & SincereTheRebel & Samadini, text him to say he's greatly missed.

Lewis
23-02-2016, 04:40 PM
'There's no laughs on here anymore', says man moaning about why he stopped bothering.

Toby
23-02-2016, 04:49 PM
Also

http://i.imgur.com/AC5xbSQ.png

It's a small board, you're only going to get out what you put in. If you're just looking for somewhere to come and have other people make the effort to entertain you it's not going to thrive for very long.

Pepe
23-02-2016, 04:56 PM
Ban 7om.

7om
23-02-2016, 08:02 PM
Screenshotting three posts from 2013 is the depths you'll stoop to? Top work.

Giggles
23-02-2016, 08:06 PM
I don't get what Toby is saying with that or what the relevance of the three posts is.

Magic
23-02-2016, 08:07 PM
A lot of us don't have the time to put in any more either. It's definitely a more mature board.

Magic
23-02-2016, 08:08 PM
I don't get what Toby is saying with that or what the relevance of the three posts is.

He's basically saying Seven is a shite poster. And he'd be right. I'm sure the point has been made before too. He offers absolutely nothing to the board.

Lewis
23-02-2016, 08:08 PM
Charlie Chan said 'The peak of my time on here was shit like photoshopping Taz, Sama and Luca', when all he did in that thread was lol at what other people were doing, so Tobias told him to shove it up his arse and actually contribute.

Giggles
23-02-2016, 08:10 PM
Charlie Chan said 'The peak of my time on here was shit like photoshopping Taz, Sama and Luca', when all he did in that thread was lol at what other people were doing, so Tobias told him to shove it up his arse and actually contribute.

Ah, I see now. Didn't twig that's what the thread was called.

Dquincy
23-02-2016, 08:39 PM
Safe spaces are important.

I swear you morons who complain are self harmers. You invoked me to post and will then complain about it. Reminds me of the feminists who give out shit and then can't take it and demand the curtailment of free speech when they get it back. The one here who gets abused is me, mostly. Not you, by me.

Woah, easy there tiger. Wasn't referring to you.

Let's calm that ego down, please.

Alan Shearer The 2nd
24-02-2016, 07:16 AM
I don't really get it either. It's one thing not posting as often if you're busy elsewhere or whatever but to just refuse to post at all strikes me as odd.

Kikó
24-02-2016, 07:29 AM
Last we heard of taz on WhatsApp, he was going on holiday to Turkey.

Giggles
24-02-2016, 07:57 AM
last we heard of taz on whatsapp, he was going on holiday to turkey.

RIP.

(caps)

Dquincy
11-03-2016, 08:39 AM
I'm out.

Giggles
11-03-2016, 09:03 AM
Rule 1 of an internet forum: Never tell people you're leaving an internet forum.

leedsrevolution
11-03-2016, 09:06 AM
I'm out.

:sleep:

Kikó
11-03-2016, 09:59 AM
Please stay quincy.

Magic
11-03-2016, 12:21 PM
:)

Byron
11-03-2016, 12:36 PM
No. Wait. Don't go.

SvN
11-03-2016, 12:37 PM
:D Yesterday he asked why I thought he was about 14 years old. I think his post above answers it for him.

Pepe
11-03-2016, 01:24 PM
Magic strikes again. :drool:

Like a Royal Rumble in here.

Magic
11-03-2016, 01:59 PM
Surely this cements my poster of the year 2016 award?

Pepe
11-03-2016, 02:05 PM
By the time the awards come you will be the only one remaining, so yes.

Charlie
11-03-2016, 07:24 PM
I enjoy reading but not posting. Nothing to do with the people here as I enjoy all the personalities, but it's just a bit more entertaining as an observer.

Giggles
11-03-2016, 07:29 PM
I'll quite miss Quincy as he was one of the touches of normality in a sea of many cunts but he could have at least done the thread properly and told us why, as per the title.

GS
11-03-2016, 07:40 PM
Why have the toys been thrown out here?

Jimmy Floyd
11-03-2016, 07:49 PM
Because he's thick as pigshit, probably.

Gray Fox
11-03-2016, 07:58 PM
Magic already up to 2 eliminations in this years Royal Rumble.

Kikó
11-03-2016, 08:28 PM
Quincey mate please.

Mazuuurk
11-03-2016, 08:29 PM
Honestly these days whenever I come on here I generally don't feel like I have that much to say, partly because I'm not on as often, and don't read threads as carefully because of it and thus - do not always know what the current discussion might be about and will find it hard to engage in it. It's kind of a vicious circle kind of thing, I guess.

Magic
11-03-2016, 08:39 PM
You're occupied now, to be fair.

Which is why I don't understand you not being on here more. :eyemouth:

randomlegend
11-03-2016, 08:43 PM
He's still mad I called StarCraft 2 shit.

igor_balis
11-03-2016, 08:59 PM
I always thought Dquincey was a decent enough guy. And the meltdown was pretty funny. Don't flounce for too long.

Lewis
11-03-2016, 09:04 PM
I'll quite miss Quincy as he was one of the touches of normality in a sea of many cunts but he could have at least done the thread properly and told us why, as per the title.

People like him are why you started drinking at home.

Baz
11-03-2016, 09:30 PM
Unexpected.

John should get more blame than Magic, from what I've seen.

Either way, "leaving" is unnecessary.

igor_balis
11-03-2016, 09:48 PM
Making a song and dance of leaving a website is a proper melt thing to do. I kind of respect people who just stop posting one day and that's it. Strong and silent type. Very sexy.

Giggles
11-03-2016, 10:01 PM
Making a song and dance of leaving a website is a proper melt thing to do. I kind of respect people who just stop posting one day and that's it. Strong and silent type. Very sexy.

It makes me feel a bit better than when I drop dead you'll just think it's sexiness from me.

John
11-03-2016, 10:02 PM
Quincy has publicly 'left' about five times over the years. It's never over anything and he always comes back. He's just an attention seeking simpleton.

igor_balis
11-03-2016, 10:08 PM
It makes me feel a bit better than when I drop dead you'll just think it's sexiness from me.

Of course. Opposites attract right? You can be the rugged, non-nonsense, unpretentious one, and i'll be the haughty romantic who tries to refine you. We could then sell the film rights of our life story to Richard Curtis and live in luxury off the proceeds.

Mazuuurk
12-03-2016, 09:10 AM
You're occupied now, to be fair.

Which is why I don't understand you not being on here more. :eyemouth:

It's true, I suppose. A kid means less time spent in front of the computer when I'm at home, and my work for the past 3-4 years have been much more, whats a good word.. intense? Like I'll usually spend 80% of my day in meetings and I also probably work a lot more than I used to.

Kikó
12-03-2016, 09:17 AM
80% of a day in meetings sounds like the least productive job ever.

GS
12-03-2016, 12:06 PM
People in London have meetings about scheduling further meetings. What's even the point?

Pepe
12-03-2016, 12:36 PM
But his meetings are intense.

Mellberg
12-03-2016, 01:14 PM
Personally stopped coming as often for a few reasons. I'm a lot busier, although as Jimmy touched upon it would be easy enough to make time if you wanted to. Fatigue is another. 15 years is a long time and it's inevitable you'll lose interest eventually, although it shows how good the place is at its best that it can hold people's attention for such a long time. A lot of the posters I had a personal affinity with have come and gone, although a few still remain. Whilst finally there's a nasty streak these days, which has been touched upon several times before, which goes through the heart of the board. That's always been there (maybe not at the very start), but it's been amplified over time.

Quincy's a good example. He's daft, yes, but instead of having fun poked at him there's a maliciousness that's seen him chewed up and spat out. One less poster and another small step toward the END.

Will say when I confessed about the missus, which I'd rather not have done, but it's out there now, there were a lot of genuine posts and PMs, which I want to thank people for, and I'm not saying we're all wankers. Just got into a habit of acting as such too often, which some take to heart and reduces numbers with time.

Dark Soldier
12-03-2016, 03:14 PM
I miss you Mellin :(

SvN
12-03-2016, 03:25 PM
I saw Quincy had left but I've no idea what caused it. In what way was he treated badly?

Giggles
12-03-2016, 03:26 PM
Personally stopped coming as often for a few reasons. I'm a lot busier, although as Jimmy touched upon it would be easy enough to make time if you wanted to. Fatigue is another. 15 years is a long time and it's inevitable you'll lose interest eventually, although it shows how good the place is at its best that it can hold people's attention for such a long time. A lot of the posters I had a personal affinity with have come and gone, although a few still remain. Whilst finally there's a nasty streak these days, which has been touched upon several times before, which goes through the heart of the board. That's always been there (maybe not at the very start), but it's been amplified over time.

Quincy's a good example. He's daft, yes, but instead of having fun poked at him there's a maliciousness that's seen him chewed up and spat out. One less poster and another small step toward the END.

Will say when I confessed about the missus, which I'd rather not have done, but it's out there now, there were a lot of genuine posts and PMs, which I want to thank people for, and I'm not saying we're all wankers. Just got into a habit of acting as such too often, which some take to heart and reduces numbers with time.

Main culprit being John, who is getting out of hand in trying to hound out most people here, some he pushes and ringleads a group against more than most. Quincy should have just gave it all the fob off it deserves though.

igor_balis
12-03-2016, 03:55 PM
Defending being a humourless cunt as 'calling a spade a spade', 'telling it how it is' or whatever is the stupidest bollocks I've ever read by the way.

Boydy
12-03-2016, 04:11 PM
Defending being a humourless cunt as 'calling a spade a spade', 'telling it how it is' or whatever is the stupidest bollocks I've ever read by the way.

Who said that?

Lewis
12-03-2016, 04:13 PM
Quincy was posting like a tit, so people said 'lol what a tit', and he appears to have cried off. I appreciate we're not really in a position to be lolling people off the board, but that was accepted as how TTH worked for long enough, so if we start treating him like a special needs case for the sake of an extra eight posts a day then we might as well close.

igor_balis
12-03-2016, 04:13 PM
Who said that?


No one specifically, but that defence is pretty frequently implied on here. I THINK SO ANYWAY.

Magic
12-03-2016, 04:14 PM
Does anyone remember Mr.X? :D

Boydy
12-03-2016, 04:14 PM
It depends who you're saying the humourless cunts are.

Magic
12-03-2016, 04:18 PM
Also I'm amazed LR hasn't melted down yet. He's got some thick skin and good on him. That's how TTH members are made.

igor_balis
12-03-2016, 04:27 PM
It depends who you're saying the humourless cunts are.

I don't think anyone IS a humourless cunt on here, but there is a culture (lol) of it being okay to get irrationally angry with other posters as long as they 'deserved it'. Bit of bantz is alright but sometimes it feels a bit toxic. Maybe it is character building though, and it might just be that I'm an overly sensitive little pussy.

Lewis
12-03-2016, 04:33 PM
You are.

Magic
12-03-2016, 04:33 PM
I don't think anyone IS a humourless cunt on here, but there is a culture (lol) of it being okay to get irrationally angry with other posters as long as they 'deserved it'. Bit of bantz is alright but sometimes it feels a bit toxic. Maybe it is character building though, and it might just be that I'm an overly sensitive little pussy.

On your period again?

Mellberg
12-03-2016, 05:03 PM
I miss you Mellin :(

I thought you'd left, sir.


Quincy was posting like a tit, so people said 'lol what a tit', and he appears to have cried off. I appreciate we're not really in a position to be lolling people off the board, but that was accepted as how TTH worked for long enough, so if we start treating him like a special needs case for the sake of an extra eight posts a day then we might as well close.

He was being a prat from what I've seen (which admittedly isn't everything), but the mob was out for him and wasn't satisfied until he fucked off. Like you say, numbers are sparse and if you look back through time there's countless examples of it and if they were all still about we'd have more activity. Quality and quantity argument, I suppose.

Bam
12-03-2016, 05:14 PM
Fuck knows how that alcoholic jock John still has any power here.

John
12-03-2016, 08:24 PM
That's the second time in a month I've apparently managed to organise and mobilise a lynchmob over the course of about five posts.

I must be a leader of men without even realising it.

Pepe
12-03-2016, 08:30 PM
Just a twat.

mugbull
12-03-2016, 10:15 PM
It's amazing how many total degenerates there are on here :happycry:

igor_balis
12-03-2016, 10:17 PM
You're my favourite, mokbull.

Giggles
12-03-2016, 10:20 PM
Mokbull is one that reminds you that it's not all about quantity.

Mazuuurk
12-03-2016, 10:23 PM
80% of a day in meetings sounds like the least productive job ever.


People in London have meetings about scheduling further meetings. What's even the point?

I would generally agree, but the majority of the meetings I'm in seem to be quite meaningful so I guess it's just quite important to what I do. Anyway, not the right thread to pursue this discussion I suppose.

Mazuuurk
12-03-2016, 10:31 PM
Oh and by the well Mellberg described the decline of this place much better than I could have, I think he has a great point. Take Lewis, there was a time where I considered him fun and friendly, even though there was some sort of pot shooting going on as there was always around TTH, but then I felt over the years as my own engagement seemed to vane, he also seemed to become more and more cynical and generally crude, to the point where I couldn't really appreciate it as a form of humour anymore.

It's a bit like the opposite journey than that of Dark Soldier. When I started posting in TTH in, what, 2006? Back then I remember he seemed quite like a bastard but then I started understanding him more and more and what was actually jokes and what wasn't, and then he started actually opening up more about his personal life as well.

On that last note, it's something we seem to definitely have lost these days. Maybe people are just more careful on the internet? The amounts of personal stuff that many, including me, have shared on here was always quite amazing, and the fact that we would almost all do it and for some reason also all seem to trust each other with that information - is what I always felt was the main reason the place was so great.

This is starting to read a little bit like a eulogy, which wasn't my intention, but then again I suppose to some extent I do mourn the better days that TTH had, because I do feel it's past it's peak now - however much I don't really want it to be so.

Kikó
12-03-2016, 10:38 PM
Did Lewis go too far with the balding jokes?

Lewis
12-03-2016, 10:45 PM
I'm possibly not as polished as I used to be, but I don't like to think I've collected any scalps. You're a big gloss to this pate, Maz, so I'm willing to glisten and try to smooth things over.

Jimmy Floyd
12-03-2016, 10:49 PM
quincy was doing the same shit Mokbull does about telling people how sad they are for posting on a forum whilst doing so himself. What you may or may not be like in real life has zero relevance to what you are like on here.

igor_balis
12-03-2016, 10:50 PM
I dunno, I'm exactly the same on here as I am anywhere else. Terrifying thought, I know.

Mazuuurk
12-03-2016, 10:58 PM
Yeah but that, igor, is a testament to why this place has always been special. In general, people do not seem to be themselves on forums, as least from what I've seen, but here people largely are, albeit at times exaggerated versions of themselves.

GS
12-03-2016, 11:01 PM
I would agree with previous sentiments expressed (I can't remember by who) that there's a slight undercurrent of nastiness now. Whereas before one assumed it was all 'good-natured', you're not left with that impression any more. It's a tremendous shame, but I have little interest in engaging in a topic only to have Tobias throw around :harold:s or Giggles make another snide comment.

Giggles
12-03-2016, 11:02 PM
Jimmy nailed it in the latter part there. I wouldn't expect anyone to be like they are here in real life. It's the extreme pantomime-like personas that make a place decent. In real life we're all boring as fuck and things like this wouldn't exist if we acted like it.

Giggles
12-03-2016, 11:03 PM
Actually that's another main thing really too. As we've aged we probably stop pretending more and just be ourselves, which is zzzzzzzzz. And it's reflecting here.

Giggles
12-03-2016, 11:04 PM
I would agree with previous sentiments expressed (I can't remember by who) that there's a slight undercurrent of nastiness now. Whereas before one assumed it was all 'good-natured', you're not left with that impression any more. It's a tremendous shame, but I have little interest in engaging in a topic only to have Tobias throw around :harold:s or Giggles make another snide comment.

Noting unjustified said, but call it whatever makes you feel better.

igor_balis
12-03-2016, 11:11 PM
t's the extreme pantomime-like personas that make a place decent.

I prefer gritty hyperrealism.

Mazuuurk
12-03-2016, 11:12 PM
Did Lewis go too far with the balding jokes?

I don't mind that, if anything all it does is make him sound like a broken record. It's more a general demeanour he's got these days.

Magic
12-03-2016, 11:19 PM
Christ sake lads come on. I expected at least a year before we started thinking about the collective suicide of the board.

Mazuuurk
12-03-2016, 11:34 PM
Fair enough. Let's brighten up a bit :)

igor_balis
12-03-2016, 11:57 PM
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=10P_ybz5YTI

leedsrevolution
13-03-2016, 01:44 AM
This place is fine. We should all accept we enjoy this forum, warts and all.

Every memtdown on here has made me a better person.

You guys.....

leedsrevolution
13-03-2016, 01:48 AM
Also I'm amazed LR hasn't melted down yet. He's got some thick skin and good on him. That's how TTH members are made.

Manaman picture with Skoles and Ferdinind

(I've been playing international superstar soccer on the n64)

Toby
13-03-2016, 12:50 PM
I would agree with previous sentiments expressed (I can't remember by who) that there's a slight undercurrent of nastiness now. Whereas before one assumed it was all 'good-natured', you're not left with that impression any more. It's a tremendous shame, but I have little interest in engaging in a topic only to have Tobias throw around :harold:s or Giggles make another snide comment.

The emoticons are because despite your claims you show no actual interest in good natured discussion, just patronising lectures. If you ever actually engaged a point you might have some substance to this, but as it is you mostly just ignore what the other person says and post whatever three paragraphs of boring shit you were planning anyway.

phonics
13-03-2016, 01:33 PM
The emoticons are because despite your claims you show no actual interest in good natured discussion, just patronising lectures. If you ever actually engaged a point you might have some substance to this, but as it is you mostly just ignore what the other person says and post whatever three paragraphs of boring shit you were planning anyway.

Qft

Magic
13-03-2016, 01:58 PM
The emoticons are because despite your claims you show no actual interest in good natured discussion, just patronising lectures. If you ever actually engaged a point you might have some substance to this, but as it is you mostly just ignore what the other person says and post whatever three paragraphs of boring shit you were planning anyway.

This is the nasty streak Mellz talked about. For shame.

Toby
13-03-2016, 02:03 PM
This is the nasty streak Mellz talked about. For shame.

I would say him dragging Giggles and my names in for a lazy dig was a far better example but each to their own.

Pepe
13-03-2016, 02:57 PM
DRAMA :drool:

Chrissy
13-03-2016, 03:15 PM
Piss taking aside, I really enjoy visiting this forum. The range of views is normally quite wide and whisper it, I even enjoy Harold's input at times. It's healthy in terms of variety and as someone who rarely posts can I add it isn't a forum littered with injokes etc. You can post in here on any thread after being away for months/years.

The old forum was the same. So credit where it is due, you folks are actually full of good chat and interesting views.

SvN
13-03-2016, 03:22 PM
Fuck off Chrissy.

phonics
13-03-2016, 03:38 PM
Cunt.

Kikó
13-03-2016, 03:40 PM
There is a real undercurrent of hate here.

igor_balis
13-03-2016, 03:46 PM
that's it, i'm going back to mumsnet

CJay
13-03-2016, 03:58 PM
Original site is cloudflaring at the minute. :harold:

I miss Taz.

Lewis
13-03-2016, 04:00 PM
Taz misses Taz every time his 'gash' thumps him and he has nowhere to vent.

Chrissy
13-03-2016, 04:02 PM
Love you guys as well.

randomlegend
13-03-2016, 04:04 PM
That's an atrocious tackle :D

EDIT: I've a feeling I'm in the wrong thread here lads.

Giggles
13-03-2016, 04:08 PM
Original site is cloudflaring at the minute. :harold:

I miss Taz.

I second that. He had his quirks but he definitely wasn't a snipey cunt.

Magic
13-03-2016, 04:09 PM
I lost a lot of respect for him. In saying that, he's probably dead after a wheel fell off his Muslamic chariot going at 105mph on the M11.

Magic
13-03-2016, 04:10 PM
That's an atrocious tackle :D

EDIT: I've a feeling I'm in the wrong thread here lads.

I thought you were referring to digs as tackles.

JPA
13-03-2016, 07:37 PM
Most people stopped coming on here cos' all the best posters kept getting bans...

leedsrevolution
13-03-2016, 07:39 PM
I lost a lot of respect for him. In saying that, he's probably dead after a wheel fell off his Muslamic chariot going at 105mph on the M11.

Why did you lose respect for him?

Kikó
13-03-2016, 07:58 PM
Most people stopped coming on here cos' all the best posters kept getting bans...

Banned.

The Merse
13-03-2016, 09:19 PM
Threads like this.

And turning into lurkers because there's not enough argument.

Consensus is a bitch.