Addiction to Porn

[Magic]

Yes, look, another 'my life is a mess' thread by MJ! Totes Hilar!

I was reading up about Terry Crews on Wiki because he's awesome, and he had one of these that apparently almost ended his marriage. He had to go in to extensive therapy and cured himself. I had a look in to it, and it looks quite...familiar (lol!). I also discovered a lot of the 'therapy' is intertwined with Christian goodwill. I think Manc might be a bigger addict than me, but I love watching porn, it gives me a kick, a boost. In saying that, I haven't watched any since my holiday, and I just logged on to eFukt and was desperate to click on one of the new vids but I didn't.

In the words of Julian Casablancas...'Is this it?'

Maybe we can create a little self help group on here.

[Disco]

It's helping yourself that got you here in the first place.

[Magic]

it's helping yourself that got you here in the first place.

tth?

[Magic]

I've just seen it described as 'virtual infidelity'. :D

This might be a feminist movement geared towards the destruction of the alpha male, actually. Reading an article here that looks like it was written by Mert's arch enemy.

[Giggles]

Is eFukt not all animal port and people taking a shit?

[Magic]

O...k. Maybe I'm not this bad...

Five Stages of Addiction

Early exposure (http://www.focusonthefamily.com/parenting/parenting-challenges/when-children-view-pornography/when-children-view-pornography). Most guys who get addicted to porn start early. They see the stuff when they are very young, and it gets its foot in the door.
Addiction. Later comes addiction. You keep coming back to porn. It becomes a regular part of your life. You're hooked. You can't quit.
Escalation. After a while, escalation begins. You start to look for more and more graphic porn. You start using porn that would have disgusted you when you started. Now it excites you.
Desensitization. Eventually, you start to become numb. Even the most graphic, degrading porn doesn't excite you anymore. You become desperate to feel the same thrill again but can't find it.
Acting out sexually. At this point, many men make a dangerous jump and start acting out sexually. They move from the paper and plastic images of porn to the real world.

When I personally got to the "acting out phase," I started fantasizing about what it would be like to actually rape a woman. I finally tried it one night when I saw a woman who "fit" the scenario that porn had taught me to look for. I was lucky. Very lucky. I didn't go through with it. After being reported, arrested and spending some time in jail, I finally was able to begin the process of weeding out the lies in my life that porn had put there.


Other men aren't so lucky. I realize now that with just a little push, I could have gone over the edge. I could have raped that woman and then killed her to cover my tracks. That's how Ted Bundy got started. When the porn he was addicted to wasn't enough anymore, he tried the real thing — rape, and then murder. When he succeeded, he did it again. And again. Pornography addiction is very serious.



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[Magic]

Yeah just close this. Turns out it's a big thing for celebate Christians that weren't taught sex ed that end up raping people because they have no idea how to control themselves because the Church repressed natural feelings. Bit like paedophile priests. Thankfully I know how to control myself.

*logs on to eFukt*

[bruhnaldo]

why efukt?

like someone else said, isn't that a bunch of absolute mental shit?

since you put yourself out there i'll at least say the strangest thing i watch is those weird lezzie wrestling videos where the loser has to let the other one have their way with them or what have you

"ultimate surrender" if i recall

it's so bad i remember when they first started doing those videos and compare the production of the newer ones

and now they even have like audiences and shit that watch and cheer on the participants lol to be honest it kinda throws me off a little bit, i liked them better when it was just seemingly the two (or four) broads and that's it!

[Magic]

I don't watch it for masturbatory purposes.

[bruhnaldo]

Alright well I tried.

[Spammer]

This is like one of those plays that only has one person in it.

[Baz]

Efukt really is more comedy than sexy.

[Spoonsky]

The governor of Utah declared porn a 'public health crisis,' and a guy I went to school with keeps liking posts off this page (https://www.facebook.com/fightthenewdrug/?fref=ts). Which, well, lol; but at the same time you would be hard-pressed to argue with the claim that at some level it's unhealthy.

[Spammer]

I think like most things can be unhealthy, depending on your attitude towards it. Watching it every few weeks is one thing, but watching it 5 times a day and no longer being attracted to the kind of women who will actually fuck you is another issue altogether.

[Magic]

Mahow

[Sir Andy Mahowry]

Mahow

Fuck you :D

I don't watch much porn.

[Spoonsky]

Probably smart, all of those long-distance plane tickets would add up.

[Shindig]

Those 'meet hot girls in your area' ads must be a Godsend.

[Sir Andy Mahowry]

Probably smart, all of those long-distance plane tickets would add up.

Would get to see the world though.

[elth]

There was an article on the Grauniad the other day about how it's a good idea to show kids porn in school which got the ol' theatrical raised eyebrow of scepticism from me. But I didn't actually bother reading it.

[Spammer]

There was an article on the Grauniad the other day about how it's a good idea to show kids porn in school which got the ol' theatrical raised eyebrow of scepticism from me. But I didn't actually bother reading it.

Yeah I think the point was that it would give adults a chance to offer a commentary on it - about how sex isn't actually like that and so on - so the kids can watch it with a more informed head on their shoulders.

I haven't read it either though, so maybe I should stfu. That's the impression I get from people yacking on Facebook though.

[Pepe]

Probably just trying to groom them.

[Jimmy Floyd]

Porn is just depictions of women getting dominated by men naked, as opposed to clothed, which is most other media. Christ, that makes me sound like Germaine Greer. But it's true.

[Ian]

Those 'meet hot girls in your area' ads must be a Godsend.

Apparently within a two mile radius of me there's just an endless supply of surprisingly tanned, supple mature women just waiting for me to send them an a/s/l. Which is weird because the women in my area mostly spend their days in the pissing rain waiting for their prescriptions to be ready.

[Dquincy]

I don't watch it for masturbatory purposes.
What?

[Kikó]

Storylines are great these days. Will she won't she shag him mainly.

[Spoonsky]

I like the ones with the pizza delivery man.

[Dquincy]

Does anyone like the softcore porn movies? I enjoy a naughty storyline.

[Sir Andy Mahowry]

Does anyone like the softcore porn movies? I enjoy a naughty storyline.

Striptease and Showgirls :drool:

I probably watched most of the Emmanuelle films on channel 5 too.

[Dquincy]

Striptease and Showgirls :drool:

I probably watched most of the Emmanuelle films on channel 5 too.
Noice. First two are classics, but yeah the emmanuelle ones are the level I'm referring too. Altho, i needed a realistic storyline so these sometimes stretched it a bit too far.

You seen fast lane to vegas?

[Dquincy]

Anyone got some new material?

[Dquincy]

These are the genres i'm working with:

Straight
British
60fps
Amateur
Anal
Arab
Asian
Babe
Babysitter
BBW
Behind The Scenes
Big Ass
Big Dick
Big Tits
Bisexual
Blonde
Blowjob
Bondage
Brazilian
Brunette
Bukkake
Cartoon
Casting
Celebrity
College
Compilation
Cosplay
Creampie
Cumshots
Czech
Described Video
Double Penetration
Ebony
Euro
Exclusive
Feet
Fetish
Fisting
For WomenFor Women
French
Funny
Gangbang
Gay
German
Handjob
Hardcore
HD PornHD Porn
Hentai
Indian
Interracial
Italian
Japanese
Korean
Latina
Lesbian
Massage
Masturbation
Mature
MILF
Music
Old/Young
Orgy
Parody
Party
Pissing
Pornstar
POV
Public
Pussy Licking
Reality
Red Head
Rough Sex
Russian
School
SFW
Shemale
Small Tits
Smoking
Solo Male
Squirt
Striptease
Teen
Threesome
Toys
Uniforms
Verified Amateurs
Vintage
Virtual RealityVirtual Reality
Webcam

[P_3]

You feeling ok mate?

[Giggles]

Described video?

[Dquincy]

You feeling ok mate?

Shall do in a minute.

[Offshore Toon]

Never thought 'Czech' would be a porn genre.

[igor_balis]

some slag off tinder showed me her fanny on snapchat last night so i think that's my new favourite porn

[Magic]

Username?

[Dquincy]

some slag off tinder showed me her fanny on snapchat last night so i think that's my new favourite porn

Told a Spanish colleague to ask another colleague if he could see her axe wound.

[phonics]

Described video?

Clicked on it once. It's mental. Don't get it. It's a computer quite literally describing the porn that's on the screen. At first I thought it was for the blind and then realised that they wouldn't need the porn. One blind, one deaf couples maybe?

[Giggles]

:D quality. I need to check that out.

[mugbull]

some slag off tinder showed me her fanny on snapchat last night so i think that's my new favourite porn

The snap of your dick you sent me the other day was appalling, so lets hope you had more grace this time round

[Jeet]

'Porn' mentioned in the title and no pics....?

https://media.tenor.co/images/16d2a256f9e50654b2b8be4963f0bdc5/raw

[Jeet]

Way ahead of you.

[Magic]

Jeet's back. :drool:

[Dquincy]

I love fake tits. Who's with me!!!?