For what it's worth, I'm VERY glad my parents got divorced rather than staying together 'for the kids'.
It was absolutely fucking horrible when they used to argue every night and it wasn't even shouting and screaming, they'd just shut themselves away to talk for hours on end.
I really don't think it 'damaged' me (yeah yeah lololol husk of a man) in the long run.
His name was Chris Banoit Benoit?
Don't you fucking oit me.Originally Posted by Giggles
It's his kid. He owns it.
My dad was an alcoholic that finally succeeded in drinking himself to death when I was 11. I had to watch my mum spiral in to debt and eventually lose our house. I was then raised in a council flat. It was shit, but she did her best and regardless of everything I grew up to be a functioning member of society. Parents splitting up is shit, but it isn't uncommon and it isn't the end of the world. At the end of the day, she will have 2 parents that love her even if they don't live together.
Do what you need to do, don't stay in a loveless and bitter relationship because of your daughter. 2 unhappy parents in a relationship is far worse than 2 single, but happy parents.
My parents split when I was 5.
I feel that the split was completely the right decision and it would have been far worse had they stayed together. What fucked me up though was my Dad getting drunk when I'd stay at his house on Saturday and just speaking so much shit about my Mum. He'd even continue talking bollocks (he told me a few times that my Mum put glass in a sandwich for my older half brother once) whilst I was trying to sleep too.
I'd say split MJ but be prepared to be reasonable and fair with the wife so that it doesn't hurt the kid who, obviously, loves you both.
My parents divorced when I was 16, my mam was expecting me to live with her as she'd get money due to my disability but I know she cheated with some absolute wanker of a man (who has a forehead like a fucking Klingon) so I chose my dad. Broke her heart for a while lol. She's still with cuntstain, goes nowhere, doesn't have much of a life, whilst my dad and his missus have three holidays a year and lead good lives. I love me mam but by fuck did she mess it all up. Bought his patter about having his own business, his own home. Turned out he worked for his brother cash in hand and lived in his son's flat.
Didn't bother me one bit, the split, as I was old enough to deal with it.
My parents have been married for 40 odd years but I'm sure you guys will be fine too.
Legit, gets taken in by camwhores, just got a job near 30.
33% Magic. 33%.
Tbf Spikey's head is fucking laughably small so its technically 0%
In fairness, as cunty as that was I was only joking. You're all good and the point stands that an unhappy marriage is worse than the alternative.
Unless the alternative is 'Benoit'.
Didn't come across as cunty to me mate, its all good.
And yeah Magic, get rid. Staying together will fuck your kid up more.
Man has a point. Stick it out MJ.
Is it? Sounds like she cheats a lot.
This is bollocks.
If I had lots of money and didn't mind shitting on my wife I'd happily be out every weekend, possibly even Friday and Saturday, assuming I had people to go with. But just because I'm out "in da club" or having a few drinks, it doesn't mean I'm scouting round a dirty dancefloor looking to finger some randomer. Just because she's out til 4am regularly doesn't mean she's cheating on him.
I'm a twit
It does though in reality.
I think it's irrelevant. The lad needs to get out either way.
Yeah, but you aren't in an unhappy relationship (I assume).
If she is out to those hours consistently, getting drunk, and with the way you describe, yeah, she's getting a bit elsewhere.
Sorry for your shit situation, Magic.
Thanks m8.Sorry for your shit situation, Magic.
1. You're a man, you don't get approached non-stop with women trying to have sex with you
2. You couldn't get laid if you tried, so you have no concept of how other human being behave or think in a club-setting
Lol this made me laugh.
She's psychologically making herself out to be a victim to justify her cheating to deal with the resentment she irrationally feels towards you because of the guilt she is experiencing due to her behavior. This is text book female behavior.Shut up you cunt I've been working all day, a concept utterly foreign to yourself so I will let you off.
I found out her cunt mate tried to convince her to go out, and when I protested on the phone she apparently spent the next 2 hours ripping in to me, calling me a cunt, a loser, worthless, she should find someone else etc. My sister heard all this and when my dad picked them up cuntfriend had a meltdown and was screaming at my dad to let her out and calling my sister a cunt too.
It's nice to know she has such a well informed opinion of me, despite me being only nice to her in person.
Fuck them both. I've spent the day contemplating, she obviously wants a different life to the one she has, she's clearly ostracised me from her friends and rips me up to all and sundry. Anyway now I know that bitch's true feelings she will never, ever set foot in my house or my car or anything ever again.
Anyway really not sure what to do lads...I'm occassionally upset at her ludicrious behavior and she says she's upset and MISERABLE all the time. If it's that bad why is she still here? She's playing me, I think. I've ignored her all day. Hopefully she does fuck off to her mum's.
Get. A. Lawyer.
This is over.
Lawyer up doesn't really apply in Scotland. We've not got horrific rules here. I'd pay maintenance according to CSA and we'd split everything down the middle.
Translation: about 30k equity in house so 15k each plus 300 a month maintenance.
My fear is my little un end up on some shit council estate fuk of cunts
Let her have custody then.
Obviously i will custody is no problem i will do 2/3 noughts a week
Mert's pitching for work in this thread. Amazing.
As if Magic's case will be helped by a Turkish lawyer. Might help him in kebab houses.
I don't do family law.
But I could make an exception
Surely, if you're going to split, the sooner the better for the kid? In the sense that she'll have more time to adjust to it at all. I can see your relationship surviving for a while longer, but she's what, six? Like fuck are you two going to last twelve more years together.
Actually, don't most people in this situation just have another kid (just as they have them in the first place to paper over the cracks)? Try that.
You look like a medieval lesbian in your new FB profile pic.
He'd probably do better with Mert as a lawyer, as he'd end up fucking the wife and be able to present her adultery to the court.
And you look like a happily married father.
I know what you're saying about there not being cheating MJ but I would suggest there is definitely cheating. If only because I have been the facilitator in that scenario with someone else's wife. I always believe personally anyone staying out until the end of the night is looking for something, as the end of the night is usually full of desperate cases who couldn't pull earlier. When you're happy in your relationship or just sexually fulfilled staying in a club until the lights come up doesn't seem like the best option.
As for time and opportunity I've known woman take one man out of a pub for a shag and then come back to get blitzed by a second unaware man. I personally have been piped off behind a working man's club by the aforementioned wife before the strike of midnight (she did have a thing for risky sex though). I've known girls who've gone off the rails getting double teamed in alleys behind pubs. In fact I think I posted in here about the time I shagged a woman dressed as pirate while I was dressed as a cowboy in a backstreet whilst on a pub crawl.
Trust me mate, if she wants it, they will come. I am not saying this to hurt you, I'm giving you the horrible reality so you can use that information to make the best decision for you and your daughter.
Oh fuck
I just want you to know that you encapsulate everything that sickens me about the British race, both men and women.
Coming from one of the biggest scumbags on the planet.
I'm a twit
I know I'm not naive. One of our friends had a 3 day break from her long term boyfriend and the first night she got fucked by 4 guys in one night.
I remember a female friend of mine telling me how on a girls night in her chav mate was talking about how she met another lad on holiday (she was married with kids). When asked if she had cheated she said 'no, I just sucked him off and let him cum on my face'.
It's natural for a beta to feel uncomfortable and nauseous in the presence of a superior alpha, Merty.
Yes but you can generally tell that type.
Whether she's cheated or not isn't even the issue here. What you do know is that she seems to want to spend as much time as she can away from you (with a friend that hates you) doing something that shes knows pisses you off.
It's like you're both pussyfooting around divorce, really. Like one's hoping the other will pull the trigger to look like the aggressor. If you fellas want to separate, get it over with.
I don't really understand the concept that she hasn't the time. It takes a second to snog someone on a dance floor (unless that's not cheating).
Depends where the ejac lands, apparently.
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