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    Get a flat in Dundee with Waff.

    TTHIRL Dundee.

    From what you've said it sounds like a silly thing to have brought it all down (stubbornness) but you'll probably be better off in the long run.

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    I'm off this week, MJ, baby. Cans with the lads on Thursday since it's payday. My treat. We can do a pub crawl of Broughty Ferry, taxi up to the student Union for your rebound. I've been friendzoned so we can get through this shot together, brother.

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    That could be just what he needs.

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    We just spoke. Won't bore you with the details but she said it'd maybe take a week to 'gather her thoughts and get her shit together'. That's a fairly long time, she's staying at her mums. She said I'm obviously more than welcome to come and visit our daughter, but for me that makes me rather ill, almost like a prisoner getting visitor time. I don't want to fucking do that, but when else can I, apart from the weekend. But even then that's almost resigning me to rent-a-dad, take her for an ice cream, read a book then fuck off. I don't want that under any circumstances but I work all the hours of the day during the week. Fuck sake.

    I am sitting here, in the deadly silence listening to nothing but the clock tick in the hall way. Staring out in to the back garden with our new decking furniture basking in the glorious sunshine, pondering what might have been, what could have been. And it sets. Sets slowly, deeply, in.



    Tick. Tock. Tick. Tock. Tick.

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    Or you go get your daughter and tell the bitch SHE can come see her daughter at YOUR home whenever SHE feels like.

    EMPHASIS because I'm fuckin angry.

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    Why does the woman always feel entitled to just take the fucking child. Go get your fucking kid and put her in her own fucking room where she belongs.

    Sleepin on the couch at Nan's when, as far as we've read about, wife's basically the one whose constant immature behavior has fucked all this off.

    She's probably talked to an attorney who advised her to take your beautiful daughter with her so she can say "well the daughter was primarily with me during our split" or some shit.

    Fuck that. I'm fuckin fuming.

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    Yeah, I'd book some emergency leave from work and bring my daughter home. She's flounced off, but that's no reason to uproot your daughter from her home.

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    Magic later.

    (sorry)

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    Makes it sound like everybody in Dundee is in a broken relationship.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Waffdon View Post
    I'm off this week, MJ, baby. Cans with the lads on Thursday since it's payday. My treat. We can do a pub crawl of Broughty Ferry, taxi up to the student Union for your rebound. I've been friendzoned so we can get through this shot together, brother.
    I hope this happens.
    I'm a twit

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    I'm pretty happy for you magic. She's a horror who you don't need.

    Just focus on how you keep your little one's life normal as possible.

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    As much as I side with Magic here (as we all do) I think the best interests of the child come first right now. Poor girl probably doesn't really understand whats going on at the moment, staying at Nan's must seem like a fun adventure for her. Magic swooping in and taking her home (at the moment) is only going to confuse and upset her, and probably give him a harder time as well.

    I do think though that you could maybe bring this up quietly with work to see about maybe finishing early some days/this week so you can go and see her each evening, keep the air of normality for her sake.

    Obviously feel free to berate or disregard all this, I have no experience, just trying to think about what I would do if it happened to me.

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    That's exactly what I'm doing mo, going to see her when mum isn't there during working hours, I want to give her the space.

    I could go and snatch her, but then I'd have to give her straight back because work.

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    Go on the run with her.

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    This is why you should have been documenting her late nights getting pissed / shagged. You could have built a nice little portfolio to show your lawyer and look to get full custody.

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    It's tricky because the mother should be better at looking after a daughter, but this mother is a dirty cunt and ultimately you don't want that rubbing off on the child.

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    Quote Originally Posted by 7om View Post
    This is why you should have been documenting her late nights getting pissed / shagged. You could have built a nice little portfolio to show your lawyer and look to get full custody.
    Indeed. You should look to compile something based on your posts in here (and text messages, WhatsApp etc.) so you at least have something to refer to, if the need arises.

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    Quote Originally Posted by GS View Post
    Indeed. You should look to compile something based on your posts in here (and text messages, WhatsApp etc.) so you at least have something to refer to, if the need arises.
    I wouldn't advise using Magics posts on here to back himself up, if it was me.

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    He would obviously use it only to reference dates and events. I'd strongly advise against including his thoughts and musings verbatim, as he'd probably end up in prison.

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    I wouldn't want full custody, I know I'm not the greatest parent. She is a really good mother.

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    You need to make sure you protect your own access, though. What happens if her family start whispering in her ear about custody etc. etc.

    Be prepared, is all people are saying.

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    There's no way that would happen.

    *SUPERVISED 2 HOUR VIEWING CENTRE*

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    Makes it sound like some sort of kiddy zoo. You must teach the bairn the ways of engineering.

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    Holy shit, it's the end of the board.

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    Real talk, good luck Magic. Remember to try and make decisions calmly instead of at the height of your emotions.

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    End of the board? Probably the lifeline we need.

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    Hope you're alright Magic.

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    How are you doing, @Magic?

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    Nosy cunt.

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    I've met a pretty amazing girl at McGill, but I don't know if I want to be dating someone two weeks into my first semester of university. Not sure what to do.

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    I just want something to read other than Hammer and RL's shit-off in the other thread.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Spoonsky View Post
    I've met a pretty amazing girl at McGill, but I don't know if I want to be dating someone two weeks into my first semester of university. Not sure what to do.
    Just play it cool.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Spoonsky View Post
    I've met a pretty amazing girl at McGill, but I don't know if I want to be dating someone two weeks into my first semester of university. Not sure what to do.
    Shouldn't you be rimming your frat bro's rather that worrying about women?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Spoonsky View Post
    I've met a pretty amazing girl at McGill, but I don't know if I want to be dating someone two weeks into my first semester of university. Not sure what to do.
    One of my biggest regrets was getting myself trapped in a relationship by Christmas of Year 1. Not that I would have been out all night partying/shagging anyway but I can't help wondering what I might have done instead.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Spikey M View Post
    Shouldn't you be rimming your frat bro's rather that worrying about women?
    It helps get the bishes.

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    If it makes you feel any better, nobody that I knew that started dating in the first 3 months of college lasted until the end, so at least you know she's not the one.

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    Or just do what young people are supposed to do and just date and have some fun, if it doesn't work out move on. It doesn't have to be a drama

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    Quote Originally Posted by Boydy View Post
    How are you doing, @Magic?
    You're a weird cunt aren't you. You did this last time as well.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Magic View Post
    You're a weird cunt aren't you. You did this last time as well.
    I just care about you, mate.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Boydy View Post
    I just care about you, mate.
    Care about my misery to make your own life better.

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    It's ok babes.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Magic View Post
    Care about my misery to make your own life better.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Boydy View Post
    If only that was how it worked

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    Quote Originally Posted by mo View Post
    One of my biggest regrets was getting myself trapped in a relationship by Christmas of Year 1. Not that I would have been out all night partying/shagging anyway but I can't help wondering what I might have done instead.
    I did this.

    I didn't have to wonder much that said, still went out partying and such. Still with her to this day as well, bonus.
    Test.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Spoonsky View Post
    I've met a pretty amazing girl at McGill, but I don't know if I want to be dating someone two weeks into my first semester of university. Not sure what to do.
    If you can't get laid regularly without a big effort you should be in a relationship. Take from that what you like.

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    Magic it's over and its been over. At it's crux, she has no respect or attraction towards you, and at the end of the day that will always determine whether the relationship can be salvaged.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Mert View Post
    If you can't get laid regularly without a big effort you should be in a relationship. Take from that what you like.
    Lol what a dumb thing to say. Maybe that's why you have such weird power dynamics in all your relationships.

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    Quote Originally Posted by mokbull View Post
    Lol what a dumb thing to say. Maybe that's why you have such weird power dynamics in all your relationships.
    'Weird' = maintains attraction and is loyal to me. It's how it's supposed to be.

    Anyways I'm probably getting back together (for good!) with a girl I met in her second week of school. I think I'm calling it a life on the girl front, I genuinely find the entire process to be tiresome at this stage. I can get laid and I'm actually over it, would rather be with someone I care about who is absolutely wonderful, I don't need to have any more 'fun.' I'd rather focus on my career / having children young / make and save money / etc.

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    What the fuck is all of that?

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    It's over, lads, no more ALPHA stories from Mert

    Do we have a replacement lined up?

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